LUCKNOW: A teenaged girl studying in class VI of an Unnao school was allegedly raped by her class teacher who later tried to terminate her pregnancy with the help of the school cook. However, as her condition deteriorated, the girl's parents rushed her to the Hospital in the city in a critical condition. The government has ordered an inquiry into the incident and would try to find out if there were other victims of the teacher's misdeed in the school. The girl, a resident of Unnao's, was admitted in an extremely critical condition at the hospital here on Thursday morning. Doctors said ""the girl was brought in an unconscious state with complaint of constant abnormal vaginal bleeding"". The doctors took no time to ascertain the cause of blood loss. ""The 14-year-old underwent an unsafe abortion after an almost 10-week pregnancy,"" the doctors told the local police and the girl's father. Additional Director General (Law and Order) said the parents of the girl have lodged a complaint with the police and the Unnao police have arrested the teacher and the woman cook of the school who forced the girl to take the pill for abortion. The police have not ruled out the possibility of more victims in the school. Chief medical officer, Unnao, also met the family and the victim in Lucknow. State minister for basic education, has ordered a probe into the case and assured strict action against those behind the misdeed. The girl's parents told doctors that their daughter was a student of class VI at the government-run Kasturba Gandhi Balika Vidyalaya. The girl alleged that her school teacher had raped her over two months ago. She also blamed the school cook, for what happened with her. She revealed that the cook forced her to take the pill which caused excessive bleeding. Talking to the media, girl's father said: ""A few days ago the school authorities informed us that she was not keeping well. We brought her home and when the bleeding did not stop, we took her to the local hospital, from where she was referred to hospital. The doctors here told us about the abortion attempt. After this, she narrated the entire story to us."" On why was the girl silent for so long, the family members said, ""the school teacher threatened her of dire consequences if she opened her mouth."" Chief medical superintendent of Medical University under which the hospital comes, Prof said that the girl was in a critical condition. ""The pill given to the girl has damaged her uterus besides causing some internal complications,"" he said adding that the team was trying to give best treatment to the girl. The incident has once again raised question over the safety of girls living in residential schools. A few days back, girl students had lodged complaint against the school guard and cook of sexual harassment. Both the accused were later arrested and sacked. Girls of an ashram school run by the district social welfare office in Kushinagar accused two grade IV employees of the school of raping them. The school is run by the district social welfare office. District magistrate inspected the school and prima facie found that the allegations were true. He ordered a magisterial probe in the case which proved the crime. a social activist, said that many cases of sexual abuse are not reported by the girls fearing that it could bring bad name to their family."" ""We have also found that girls are being subjected to misbehaviour by school officials and anomalies like poor quality food, lack of space, shortage of staff, inadequate study material,"" she added. Not just schools, orphanages and protection homes have proved to be unsafe for girl. About a month back, three minor girls were raped by a peon in an orphanage run by the government, for children below 10 years of age in Allahabad. The victims are said to be between 7 to 9 years of age are subjected to physical and mental trauma for last few months. However, the matter came to light when one of the girls disclosed everything to a childless couple who wanted to adopt her. The couple informed the authorities. Later inquires found two more victims. Medical examination confirmed rape. http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/lucknow/Teacher-rapes-girl-cook-terminates-her-pregnancy/articleshow/13236618.cms

I don't remember the exact day when this started, and thinking now, don't find it important enough. Never been able to tell about this to my parents since last 30 years but today possibly I will call up my mom and tell her the entire story. I have not been able to sleep last night after watching your repeat telecast. I was probably in class 5 when my chacha who was preparing for bank used to come down to our house for 8-10 days in a month. He used to love me a lot, buy me chocolates etc. My parents used to ask me to sleep with him and he used to lock the door while coming to sleep. After 2-3 days, I found him putting his hands inside my pant. I didn't knew how to react and kept silent. This continued for few days after which he used to lower my pant and rape me. I was unable to face him the next morning and neither would he ever look at me. Slowly I was scared of sleeping with him but since my parents loved him a lot, they used to force me sleeping with him. Every month he used to come down for 8-10 days and would repeat the same with me. I was shocked and didn't know whether my parents would believe me because they loved him so much. This went on and on for next 7-8 years even after he joined State bank of India as a PO. After joining he moved to Guwahati and used to come down twice a year but during those days, he used to come down to our place rather than going to his village. He used to tell papa that he loves him more than his parents; thinking back now, I believe he used to come down for me always. I used to tell my parents always that I don't want to sleep with him but they never listened to me much. One fine day, when i was in +2 1st year, he tried to repeat the same, I got up, opened the door and went to living room and slept on sofa all night. Next day onwards it stopped completely and so was his annual visit to our home. After few years, he got married and my papa had gone to attend the marriage whereas I didn't. My parents are still in touch with him, but I am sure after today or next week, they will stop this too. Thanks Aamir for giving me the courage to speak out. I am feeling so lighter today after 30 odd years. I don't know if you believe this story or not, but atleast I am happy that I have spoken my mind out. This entire episode of 6-8 years have brought out a bitterness on me for males and made me more close towards females. After that, I feel more secure with women than men. Since my parents never listened to me, I lost my self-confidence which was very difficult for me to get back. Since last 9 years, I have been reading a lot of self-help books to make myself feel better, confident because I know only I can help myself, no one else. Thanks Aamir.

Hi, I am a Phd research scholar from Delhi university my research is on children with Autism. During my research i met a 14 yr old girl with severe Autism condition. she is the victim of child Abuse i want to draw ur focus on children with disabilities they even not know what exactly their body nd they are being abused its so pathetic and the girl whom i am talking about now Aids victim too because she is abused by her caretaker's husband who is a rikshavala he has Aids when his wife knows she stops any physical involvment with him so for satisfying her husband's sexuall needs she support him to abuse this girl who is totally dependent on her because her father is a bussinessmen and her mother died last year and the lady who take care girl is working from last 6 years in her home. incidence came to light when i started to vist her home for my Autism case studies and i found her from a family friend i noticed the unusual activities of that men in her house i talked to her father because girl even can't speak properly because of her Autistic characteristics me and her father both arranged cameras in her home and what we saw in recordings is shocking now a ngo is helping the girl and father.

Hi, Best thing of your last episode which was last telecast on 13-05-12 is the workshop because many time it happens that somebody is doing something wrong with you but as you are not aware of it, you dont even know if it id right or wrong thing happening. I am 22year old female, in my childhood I was abuse for times and I reaslised the fact when i grew up, when i bacame mature to understand those incidents. 1st incident I guess I was hardly 6year old, that time I used to stay in join family. My paternal aunt had come to our home with their three childrens for vacation. Her son around 16 year old was trying to create physical closeness, and I dint realise it what he was trying to do. 2nd incident. This was the time when I had gone for a vacation at my paternal aunts place, that time I was 7 or 8 year old. There her abnormal brother in law who was somewhere around 22 took me at the terrace and tried to rape me. Within shorttime my paternal aunts husband arrived and stopped his brother. He did hit him and asked me to not to tell about this to anyone. I agreed to him, after that time this is the first time in my life I am disclosing it in front of all. Third Incident I was in 10th standard. I used to go for english coaching classes to very known Sir. One day I arrived early for the classes, I was having a good talk with him and was waiting for my other batchmates to come. Till then he dint do anything wrong to me but his intentions were wrong. He asked me for the help, he said I can only help him. I like a innocent kid asked him what is the matter, how can I help you? He said he wants my hands, because he is not happy with his wife. He added saying he can go to prostitutes but he is worried about his reputation. if I allow him he wont tell anybody about this. Although I dint agree for the help but I still regret why dint I tell my parents, why dint I complaint about him to my principal. I am just worried if he ever asked to another girl. God forbid if he has not. To me asking is also a child abuse than doing it. This three incidents always comes in my mind whenever anybody talk about child abuse. It donot have any extensive mental effect on me, because I dint knew what was happening to me, today when I know what is it, I have cutdown my relations with three of them. I believe if I had attended the workshop which Aamir took with childrens than I would have known in my early age itself what was happening to me. May be 2nd or 3rd incident wouldnt have arrived in my life when I already knew where one should be allowed to touch and where not. Thanks Aamir for the workshop, this will really help to those innocent kids who dont know what is right and what is wrong happening with them. Thanks!!!

Hi, Amir Ji your both the episodes were superb. Would like to share a story of my life. After seeing your first episode especially . We are three Daughters to our parents no son. I am the elder one and Younger are Twins. We come from a Middle Class Family. When we were Young , School Going my mother used to tell us , the Biggest gift from parents to their children is education because it makes u independent (especially for a Women). My Dad was a very loving and happy go lucky person he was our best friend and mom was a bit strict and very caring and loving. Today through this block i would like to thank my parents because after the first episode i felt ki i have the best mother and father in the world my father never every felt he has 3 daughters nor my mother. they gave us the best education possible . I am an MBA working for a Multinational and My two sisters Kirti and Kala are MBA and CA. when i was in school in my teen age generally when we are growing , i had a problems with some stranger on the road when i used to come back from school. There was a blood old man always following me and pinching my Breast. i took it for 1 st time and whole nite the thing haunted me. the next day i got up and i told my parents and my mom advice was slap him 10 and count 1 and my dad was silent. The Same day when i was coming back the old man was again there i was fully tensed , getting nervous and thinking what to do now as he was approaching me . Suddenly My hero stood next to me on his luna my sweeto dad and that was the moment of my life time when i pinched his breast back. My dad told me ki at the age of 14-15and 16 we cant just be parents we have to be ur close friends too and understand ur world. He Said i have a Sister Beta and i can Understand(I love u DAD the most in my Life). My Dad is no more When i was in my Final Semester he Expired, after that my mother to support the family had to work so she started her pan shop. Today even thou we are working in big companies my mother run's that shop. Not because we are daughter's and that she has given us married and she cant ask our help.It's Because she at the age of 60 still wants her in dependency and keep her self occupied. Lastly want to share my some story of married life. i am a girl who can't even prepare tea well. mine is a Arrange marriage my husband's Name is Venkatesh . When we got married we had a very small period of courtship. After marriage my husband has cooked from the first day till 10 initial month of the marriage. No bitter Feelings nothing no question at all always one thing came out of his mouth u will also learn. In between of those 10 months i had prepared some time Pulav and once Sambar. My Sambar was a little worst as of my taste little salt and more chilli powder. My husband word for my sambar was outstanding. Today after 3.5yrs of marriage my husband say u learnt it and ur sambar Rocks!! He has Not changed even a little in these yrs he still wash's the utensils , helps me in cleaning house and clothes and cooking. It was December 17 2009 i got the news that i am carrying . The same Day is my husband Birthday . He told me ki he wanted a girl and we will name her khwaish, and at the age of 3 she will learn karate and at 5 contemporary dance(DID effect). We will give her the best education possible and she will be our only one child (My husband way of Cost Cutting hahaha ). On July 29th 2010 i got my kid fortunately she was a girl and we have named her Khwaish. She is Turning Two and Calls me Uncle instead of mother and her Dad BABA (in marathi) . My husband after my Father is my best friend good or bad i share it with him and he always welcomes it saying u are my partner. For people my story may look as if praising and a bit cooked up. But this is a fact . Through this Block i want to tell every one ki i am blessed with good parents , Siblings , Husband and Then Daughter. Please do not kill a Girl even she brings happiness , as my mother , as me , as my sisters and like my Little Khwiash.

Dear Aamir, Thanks for giving voice to millions who suffer silently. For me the abuse started when I was around 10 years old. My mother's cousin sexually abused me. His first question to an 10 year old was, "Do you bleed down here yet?" Not even knowing what he meant at that age, I was horrified and begged him not to make me bleed. The jerk was just making sure that he could not impregnant me. I tried telling my aunt (Mamiji). Her first reaction was to gather all female members of the joint family and tell them to protect their girls. No one cared about me. To her credit, she did tell me to say no the next time he tried it. And I did. As I grew up and got married, I could not stand to have normal relationship, physical or emotional with my husband. I was a wreck. I told my husband the reason and he stood by me as I fought through years of depression. When I had my 2 daughters, I started having flashbacks of the abuse. I would wake up terrified and sweaty. My husband gave me the courage to leave my job and concentrate on getting better. I live in the US, so, it was easier to get help without taboos attached to it. The abuse had taken place in India. At that time my therapist told me that world wide every third person has been abused and in countries with joint family system, every second child has been. On a side note, I also told my parents & my older brother(a doctor) after I got married. Over the years, I have become a very confident & spiritual person. I am also proud to have raised to beautiful daughters. Here is the challenge I talked about in the title: My parents stood by me. I am 39 now. Until 4-5 years ago, they did not say anything to anyone until I returned to India for a family wedding. The guy was there and my Dad, seeing us in place, went beserk. He confronted the guy and asked him to get out. Since that time, all relatives on my mother's side have left them. I even got a call from a younger cousin of mine who is younger than me. She begged me to stop my dad from making a big deal out of this. The entire family thinks my Mom and Dad are blowing this "small incident that happened year ago" out of proportion. And a year ago, my parents moved away from Chandigarh where they had lived for the last 50 years. During all of this, they have not blamed me once. They are proud of what I have become and my mother who has left all the people she grew up with, including her real brother's and sisters even says that she doesn't care for anyone except me. I am lucky that I got an understanding husband, lovely daughters, supportive brother and great parents. But somewhere I feel that because I chose to tell them they truth, my parents have now lost all the relatives. Do I feel guilty? Sometimes. But I would not change anything I did or my parents did. Mom, Dad, I am proud of you and I love you.

I watched the episode on Child sex Abuse.It is great lesson.We appreciate Aamir for initiating such a true things happening around us.Hi,I am .......I am 27 years old boy,working as software engineer.Past 12 years I have question on me,why i did the wrong things.I am feeling like i am a criminal.When i was in 9th standrad,some of my friends and neighbours eleder brothers (to whom i respect),they all betrayed me.they showed me the wrong path.Always they were pushing me to do sex with child boy or girl eventhough i am a teen age boy,i dont know all these things. They were keep pressurizing me on this matter.i am a shameless person.One day i tried to sex with my neighbours daughter(age 7 years) but i was caught by his father.I was being scold and hitted by my parents and her parents.I promised them that i will not do such things in future,but i think i had addicted to do such kind of things.I tried with my cousins also.They never stopped me,as i dont know what to do,i was doing only smooching and ....i never had sex with anybody.again i was caught by mother,then i tried to do suicide,but i failed.Then i promised myself that i will not do such kind of things in my life.But still that memory is torturing me,i am unable to forget that situation.I dont know really why i did those things.I have still question to myself that why my friends/brothers forced me to do,why i had been provoked .I feeling guilty every moment.I am unable to share these things to my parents.even i came out of this situation,i am fearing to go to my parents to discusss any mattter.I have no streangth to ask forgive.

chilhood is said to be the most purest part of ones life.... but unfortunately i dnt hav any such pure memories of my childhood.... iwas in std 4 when my grandfather first abused me... i was shocked ... actually iwas never told about these things so i never knew what was happening with me.... iwas abused by him for 5 yrs till he used to touch over wrong places.... there were nigths i couldnt sleep as some incidents took place when i fell asleep.... i used 2 lock my room.... but very next i couldnt ans my mom why i do so...when in std 9 i had the courage to stop him.... the courage to oppose him..... i always thought of telling to my parents but never had the courage to do so..... i always was always afraid that my parents would never believe me. years paased now iam 21 years old.... still i thinking about those ..... tears rolls down my cheek.... i was moving over this.... when last year my cousin told who was in std 6.... about a incident took place with her she wasnt able to understand..... the culprit was again my grandfather.... the moment i heard that i broke up... and i decided i wont let her suffer.... i confonted my grandfather warned him... the told my parents about it.... every one asked me why i was quiet .till now and i had no answers..... i always feel guilty about my sis.... i if would had confronted my parents earlier she wouldnt hav to suffer.... i can never forgive that him... he took all childhood frm me..... i really thanks my aunt who supported me a lot more than my mom.......

hello aamer ji, m dua karti hu ki jo koshish aap kar rahe ho usme aap zarur kamiyaab ho.aapka aaj ka topic meri zindgi se milta h,shayad m bhi unhi baccho me se hu jinhone ye sahan kiya or kisi ki maddat bhi nahi le paye, m jab shayad 10 saal ki bhi nahi thi tab se hi mere pita ne mere sath wo kiya jo shayad kisi ko nahi karna chahiye tha.hr raat wo hota jiske baare me m kuch na janti thi or na hi kuch samjhti thi,aaj un baato ko kareeb 15 saal ho gaye,par aaj bhi wo raate mujhe yaad h.meri maa to mujhe paida karne ke baad hi kisi ke sath bhaag gai,or mujhe duniya me ye sab sahan karne ke liye choud gai.meri maa ne bhot logo se samband banaye or papa ne bhi,par na jane kyu kabhi marne ki himmat nahi ki maine ,kyuki m dekhna chahti thi ki meri zindgi me dukho se m jeet pati hu ya nahi.mere saath mere papa,or kai logo ne anginat baar sex kiya,yaha tak ki 17 saal ki umar me mane ak baccha bhi giraya. aaj tak wo insaan mere sath sex karne ki firak me rahta h,par maine ab khud ko un sabhi logo se dur kr diya h ab m apni zindgi khud jeeti hu,akeli. mera ak sawaal h or m chahti hu ki aap logo se ye sawaal kare ki 'kya hum ladkiyo ko khush rahne ka,husne ka,ya bina kisi dar se jine ka koi huq h.?'.kya kabhi hum bina dar ke apni zindgi ko ji payege ?,kya koi esa kanun nahi banaye ja sakta jiski saza esi ho ki log hum par nazar dalne se bhi dare?,agar aap betiyo ko paida karne ke liye logo ko jaga rahe h,to kya aapne ye socha h ki un betiyo ka kal kya hoga?,wahi jo aaj ho raha h? betiyo ko paida karne se pahle unki suraksha ki sochiye. log beti se nahi darte balki uske sath jo pareshaniya hoti h usse darte h,aaj m bhi yahi sochti hu ki agar betiyo ka yahi haal h to beta hi sahi h,magar sach me main ak beti ki maa banna chahti hu,par dar lagta h...........? aaj maine apni zindgi ki sacchai aapke sath baati h,ak wishwas or aasha ke sath,umeed h ki ak din meri beti bina dar ke bahar ki duniya me kadam rakh payegi. thx,is show ke liye,shayad ab log jaag jaye......

i live in delhi, my name is sudhir, ye ghatna 24/4/2012 ke hai, i hear that, ek choti ladki jo 6 Year ke the, 3rd floor se gir kar expire ho gai, ye ghatna kalka gadi Gaon ke hai, her father name is vinit, & he is living in a joint family, per 4/05/2012 ko mujhe pata chala, uski ke cosine brother ne 24/04/2012 ko uski beti ke sath rep ke koshish ke, or use gala daba kar mar diya, i m shocked, per ghar walone, us ladke jisne ye murder kiya (uski shadi ko abhi 2 month he hue hai), usko ghar se bhaga diya, or koi police complained nahi ke,

sir, main lucknow me rahata hu b.sc. 2nd year ka student hu,lucknow christian college me study kar rah hu.aaj k pahale main yahi sochata tha k keval main he child sexual abuse se releted hu but aaj maine jb satyamevjayate dekha tb pata chala k boys bhi child sexual abuse me fase hai. batate hue hichkichahat si ho rahi hai but main pichhale 12 sal se ye dard sah raha hu. hala ki 2 sal se hm khud ko bachate aa rahe hai. mera sosan karane wala aur koi nahi mere taau ka beta jo mujhase 10 sal bada hai usane kiya.main bhi ladko aur admiyo se darta tha k wo kaisa hoga.aaj show dekhne k bad main chaurahe pe aya ittefaq se wo samne taha.puri himmat juta k maine use jordar tmacha mara hai aaj. road pe sb dekh rahe the wo kuchh bola nahi but i am sure ki wo samjh gaya akhir usane bhi to show dekha hoga. bahot dhanyawad prerna dene k liye ki aaj main us dohari jindagi se mukt ho gaya anjam jo hoga dekha jayega.but ab bahot ho chuka.... main khus hu ab ......

ajj apka show dekh kr maine apni 7 years purani chupi ko toda aur bachpan mein jo mere mama ne mere saath kiya wo sab apne parents ko btaya....!!apka show dekh kr mujhme himmat aayi aur maine wo sab kuch bta diya jo mere saath hua...!! Ander se pal pal mrti thi jab us pal ko yaad krti thi....!!sochti thi k kese btau..mummy papa ko...kinn sabhdo ko ke saath...!! Ajj show dekh kr maine kuch nhi socha bus jo hua wo kehti hi gyi...buss....!! Thanks alot satyamev jayate and amir ji...!! Ab mai ander se pal pal nhi mrugi...!!! Mai apka saath hmesha dugi...16 saal ki hu...marte dam tak apka saath dugi...!!kyunki jab hm ladkiya kisi ka saath deti hai toh pure dil se deti hai...bus hm jiska saath de uske irrade pakke or majboot hone chahiye...!!kisi bhi mushkil mein or poora india apke saath hai...!!take care nd best wishes!!! SUPRIYA FROM AMRITSAR

i was young and was of 10 years when one of my friend of my age started this with me doing sex we both did and both were guys and from that i had done this with many other children younger than me till the age of 18 years but when i came to a matured stage i had done this thing with other younger kids of my age group i still feel so much guilty in myself about i was in this for 8 years i think that its a stage of a disturbed mind whether it may be a kid or a elder person i feel till today that it all started with me from a friend of mine who was of my age like a play and i was so innocent i enjoyed that play but today as i am matured i understand that that was day of my start of failure in my life till today i am failure in my life i was a total kid but i was unable to share it with my parents as my father was very strict and i was very naughty kid i was scared of my father and i never shared myself with him this habit developed in me because of my non sharing with my parents i am just writing this because i wanted to bring this story also in mind of other people also that a child s mind is very soft and sensitive if we are not good in sharing with our child then in 1 way or other we are not his parents coz we will never know what he needs what he want to share my father didnt became my good friend so this disease carried with me for 8 years spreading around with kids of my age and others but till today i am guilty of it and will remain guilty whole my life how i was in this dirt that spoiled my precious period of my life and till today i remember that time i was so full of dirt i just feel sorry and want to forget it ? kindly share so that in many families where father and mother are too strict and there children might be in this with a start of a game coz my friend told me that lets play a game and your child gets into this dirt and put other children also in this dirt please read and share !